Grieving Loss of Mother.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Dear Deepak,
Last month, I lost my beloved mom. I`ve been through a complex process, as I witnessed all her conscious process of dying during 10 days, being respectful of her choice of leaving this material world, although hurt me immensely. I`ve been studying and meditating for many years, and this has helped me understand what happened, with my mind and my self. Nevertheless, I still feel a very deep connection with her and it makes me feel very sad that she is not here, Although I know this one talking is my ego, I can`t avoid feeling devastated sometimes. I go back to desiring her to be here. I also feel there`s nothing else in this world for me, like if I just started the way back to the origin, and as if I am pulled back, static. Is continuing in my spiritual path the way to my internal peace? What do I have to understand and make my wisdom?
Thanks in advance and my best wishes to you
Response:
The loss of a mother is a major life transition, especially when the relationship has been so close, loving and meaningful. Don’t need to feel you need to rush the grieving process or find a short spiritual process to peace. This healing process is your spiritual path right now. You are in the middle of transferring the love, wisdom, and feelings you felt toward your mother into a presence within you that you can always access and be with and eventually incorporate into your larger Being. Be kind and gentle with yourself as you find your way along this journey. There will be tears, smiles, emptiness and even episodes of expansive joy as you come to a place of peace and healing. You don’t need to rush the process, just take care of yourself and allow your heart to open up to love as much as it can.
Love,
Deepak
This question is all that goes on inside myself right now and I can't believe that right now, today, on the verge of me realizing this is a question I needed an answer to, it's been written here and answered to. I feel lucky to be.
This question is all that goes on inside myself right now and I can't believe that right now, today, on the verge of me realizing this is a question I needed an answer to, it's been written here and answered to. I feel lucky to be.
Very Nicely Answered by Deepakji in a Scientific Way! Really it's Very Sad to lose the loved ones for anybody. There is a Saying : God cannot be everywhere, that is why he made MOTHER. Losing the Mother is the Greatest tragedy in every human's Life. All our Condolences! Console yourself that Death is So Certain for anybody. You Witnessed all her conscious process of dying during 10 days. The body that you worshiped & prostrated as Mother was there, even after the time of death. The feet you touched as mother was there even after the time of death. But seeing this body, we are all cry! Oh Mother you left! What does it show? It shows that Mother is not just the BODY! Realize this Truth! Remind yourself this Truth Clearly! The Tenderly Love she showed & felt alone was left. It Clearly shows that Mother is the Atman or Spirit or Love! Start seeing the Same Atman within Yourself and in every other being & start connecting yourself with many no. of people! Don't Isolate Yourself, since you have sad feelings within you! Take this Wisdom & Do it!