Question:
I`ve been passing through hard, painful and difficult period in my life. After my boyfriend left me (some 6 months ago), I started to ask myself what I did so wrong. To be correct, he wasn`t the only one who couldn`t work out in the relationship with me. So I turned to work with my inner world to solve a brunch of my problems. my love life was the most problematic among the others. So, my question would be: If I ever become a capable person for a relationship with men, will any of them want to involve with me?? Because of my experiences with partners I am full of doubt and I just can `t believe that I will ever meet any person who would like me.. After the recent breakup I can`t imagine the situation I meet someone I like and at the same time he likes and wants to be with me
Answer:
We attract the partner in our life that helps us heal and become whole. This basic mechanism operates independently of our desire for an ideal mate and our fears of not finding anyone. The best thing to do is to be receptive and willing to go through the growth process as it presents itself, rather than thinking you or your partner must satisfy some ideal criteria before you can move forward. When the time is right, you will definitely meet someone.
Love,
Deepak
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Dear Deepak,
My wedding was on Feb 10, 2007 and it was violently ruined by my new brother in law and his awful wife. These two persons had a grudge on my based on a perception that I dislike small children, their child whom ruined another party of mine where my boyfriend asked for my hand in marriage from my father. At my wedding reception these two individuals yelled at me unpublic, stripped my new husband of his clothing until he was naked and interrupted my reception entirely. I asked them to leave and they did not, instead the carried out the entire evening to mock my friends, my family and me. They completely ruined what would have been a wonderful and happy event. A year has passed and I am not over it. I remember this event and I suffer it all over again. I have been unable to forgive or forget and I wish for them the most awful things. A year has passed and these awful human beings have never tried to contact me and are actually proud of what they do and still laught and boast about their actions. I remember my wedding day with hatred and I am clueless as to how to understand why this had to happpen to me and how God and the Universe allowed this happen. I have never ever done something evil or despicable like this. It was like seeing demons att my wedding. Tell me how to get over this please. I am unable to get passed it. It is like my heart is ripped.
Hello Deepak,
I have just read the 7 laws of spiritual success and it is everything that I have always felt. I am having problems trying to detach from an abusive ex boyfriend who has all the behaviours of personality disorder and narcissistic defenses. He verbally abuses me and will not stop texting. I feel degraded and was abused when I was a young girl by my father who was similar. Is there anything that I can read that will help my spiritual self-esteem and to be able to not allow this man to destroy my confidence. I just want him to leave me alone. When I feel bad I read your book about the spiritual laws and I feel a lot calmer then. Thank you, Jayne
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